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Culture War Roundup for the week of December 29, 2025

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This video was posted on December 26th.

Do you think it was filmed the day it was released?

I'll admit the misspelled "learing center" was a nice touch

Yeah, misspelling your school's name on it's front door is a 'nice touch'.

I'm not going to make the positive claim that these institutions are all above board and the victim of selective editing.

So what are you claiming? You seem to just be swatting lazily enough to not have to think any harder about it. Come on out with a prediction here. Of course Nick Shirly, a 23 year old youtuber isn't going to be a button up investigator, which makes it all the more damning if he's the one to whistle blow massive fraud.

So massive fraud or not?

There's probably massive fraud involved, but a twenty three year old man knocking on the door of a daycare asking to see the children will have the police called on him, and not see any kids(they will be locked down). This video doesn't show anything at all.

not see any kids(they will be locked down)

The kids of course are being stored in a bunker far below sea level, handled by elite security personel.

I've done a lot of childcare tours/pickups if one is even somewhat active you'll be able to hear it. Even if these are all a unique form of windowless secure child storage the lack of even stroller parking is pretty indicative.

They will be kept in their classrooms with the doors locked and the windowshades drawn.

At all times? Have you ever been near a child?

I'd agree if it were an active shooter drill but you're saying the random childcare workers are immediately going on DEFCON7 every time somebody pulls up in the driveway?

At bare minimum a functional childcare would have some sort of outdoor play area as is literally state-mandated, generally I'd expect to see stroller parking and the building being noisy and active.

And the red tribe/blue tribe split shows itself again.

When I lived among the blues... honestly some childcare institutions were this paranoid, deranged as it seems. Loudoun County Schools called the police on a father who showed up to collect his raped daughter because he was a little too upset that his daughter was raped. I believe they didn't even allow him in the building, locked down classrooms, and sent out an email that a parent had caused a disturbance.

I don't live among the blues anymore. That level of neuroticism and inverted priorities is just too cruel for me to live under. But though you may scoff and think he's exaggerating, depressingly he may be describing how childcare institutions actually behave around him.

They really are completely different from us.

When I lived among the blues... honestly some childcare institutions were this paranoid, deranged as it seems. Loudoun County Schools called the police on a father who showed up to collect his raped daughter because he was a little too upset that his daughter was raped. I believe they didn't even allow him in the building, locked down classrooms, and sent out an email that a parent had caused a disturbance.

I'm not saying people can't lockdown a childcare center, my point is more that an active childcare center tends to be quite obvious on account of the accoutrements and noise of children. Unless the presupposition is that they immediately shuffled everybody into the bunker as soon as these guys got out of the car.

Yes, massive fraud. No, this video isn't proof of it. This video is just outrage bait.

Was this filmed the day it was released? No, could have been filmed... December 25th? December 24th? It clearly wasn't filmed in the Summer. It's not like this was a culmination of years of investigation.

There's enough CONFIRMED fraud going on in the Somali community that your priors that this sort of business is fraudulent, at least to some large degree, should be high enough to make an educated guess rather than outright dismissal.

Plus, the Boomer guy straight up says he's been paying attention to this for years.

So in a sense, yes, yes it is a culmination of years of investigation.

Of course it’s not proof. It’s a spotlight, and a question begger about what’s going on and why it took him to highlight it

“well of course there’s fraud, a this guy is pointing to it, but see he’s pointing wrong, so can be dismissed or agreed with where convenient”

It’s just cake-eat-having commentary.